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Joy to the World
In this sermon, CJ Wakefield shares a heartfelt message titled 'Joy to the World,' focusing on the significance of joy as announced by the angels during the birth of Jesus. He emphasizes the importance of joy in our lives, both in our relationship with God and with others. CJ references biblical prophecies and teachings from Isaiah and Luke to illustrate how joy has been a central theme in God's plan. He also offers practical advice on cultivating joy through healthy, grace-filled relationships and spiritual practices such as prayer, gratitude, and fellowship. The sermon encourages listeners to recognize and embrace joy as an integral part of their faith, especially during the Christmas season.
00:00 Welcome and Introduction
00:08 Personal Stories and Memories
01:37 The Message of Joy to the World
03:01 The Prophecy of Joy
05:56 Living a Life of Joy
15:47 Building Joyful Relationships
21:43 Practical Steps for Joyful Living
23:41 Conclusion and Communion
Transcript
Wow, good morning everybody.
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:It is great to be with you all.
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:Um, I have, uh, do we have some slides?
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:Do I do this?
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:Do I do this?
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:Alright, wonderful.
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:There's my family.
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:So, one of my sons is not here with us
today, he's on the west side, but, uh, the
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:two of them are, are here with us today.
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:Um, so we have, uh, Elijah is 21,
then Nathaniel is 18, and Micah is
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:16, that's my wonderful wife Cherie.
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:Uh, but it's good to be
here in Orange County.
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:This is not my first time here, so,
um, I'm gonna show you a picture,
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:but you gotta promise not to laugh.
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:Okay, we've got one nod of the head.
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:The rest of you, I'm not trusting you.
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:So I was here.
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:Um, I came to Disneyland with my
dad in about in the mid eighties.
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:So here I am.
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:So why?
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:Thank you.
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:I know they are some short shorts, right?
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:I'm glad it's a blurry picture.
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:So you can't see it that clear.
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:But we were also let me skip on it
because that's embarrassing but we were
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:also here where in about 2008 I think
there was an international leadership
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:conference in Round this in Orange County,
so we've got we were blessed to come
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:and be a part of that But it is such a
blessing, you know We Robert and career
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:put on a spiritual learning lab with
some of the staff And, uh, my wife and
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:I got to be with, uh, most of the Orange
County staff on that spiritual journey.
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:So it's been a real blessing to even
to have gotten to know them and to
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:work alongside them spiritually.
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:So I'm very excited today to be able
to come and share the word with you.
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:You know, Christmas is amazing
and, uh, I hope that you're going
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:to have an amazing Christmas.
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:But today's message is entitled, uh,
joy to the world and the reason why.
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:So if you remember, if you
think about what happened.
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:So the angels are out in the field.
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:And, uh, also the shepherds
are out in the field.
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:And an angel appears and the
shepherds are absolutely terrified.
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:And yet the angel says to
them, Do not be afraid.
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:I bring you good news
that will cause great joy.
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:For all people.
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:In other words, he's saying,
listen, what I'm about to tell
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:you is joy to the entire world.
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:And if you think about that,
he could have announced, which
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:obviously is going to be announcing
the birth of Jesus, with anything.
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:He could have said, I come and
I bring you news of salvation.
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:I come and bring you news of
deliverance or redemption.
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:And all of those things are amazing.
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:But he says, I bring you
good news of great joy.
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:Joy to the world.
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:Now, why is that so significant?
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:That that is the single word that he
chooses to describe the most incredible
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:event the world has ever seen.
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:Why did he choose that word?
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:Well, what had happened was, The
Israelites, up until this point,
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:And even including this point, have
been in 700 years of occupation.
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:With the Assyrians, the Babylonians, the
Persians, the Greeks, and now the Romans.
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:700 years of oppression and of occupation.
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:And so can you imagine, they
were a little bit short of joy.
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:Right?
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:That is why I think he says that.
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:And so if you look in the book
of Isaiah, Isaiah in English.
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:I will try and say Isaiah,
but I may slip back.
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:So in Isaiah chapter 9,
this is what the Bible says.
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:So this is a prophecy of the very
beginning of their occupation.
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:Of their being occupied by the Assyrians.
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:This is what it says in chapter 9 verse 1.
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:Nevertheless, there will be no more
gloom for those who are in distress.
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:The people walking in darkness.
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:Have seen a great light on the,
on those living in the land of the
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:shadow of death, a light has dawned.
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:You have enlarged the nation and
increased, literally made great its joy.
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:For unto us, a child is born.
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:Unto us, a son is given.
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:And the government will be on his
shoulders, and he will be called
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:Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
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:See, this is no coincidence that
the angel said, I'm giving you a
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:message that will bring you great joy.
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:Because this was prophesied
700 years before.
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:And look how Jesus birth is
prophesied, with great joy.
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:Now, the thing is This was the
very beginning of their occupation.
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:So, God is saying to them, Listen, you
abandon me, you're gonna have great
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:distress, you're gonna go through
very dark times, but I promise you,
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:something amazing is gonna happen
that will bring you wonderful joy.
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:And in fact, throughout the entire book
of Isaiah, it's like a book of joy.
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:Amen.
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:If you ever do a study on it, he talks
about joy 33 times in that whole book.
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:More than any other book in the whole
Old Testament, apart from the book of
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:Psalms, which is man talking to God.
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:So God is talking to us and
saying, Listen, just hold on.
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:Yes, you abandoned me.
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:Yes, you're going to go
through some hard times.
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:But it's going to be worth it.
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:Because I'm sending you someone.
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:Who is going to bring you the
most incredible joy in your life
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:that you could ever imagine.
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:Does that how we feel though,
as we live our lives in Christ?
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:Is that how we feel though, in our
relationships with one another?
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:Because that's what Jesus promised.
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:That's what God promised through Jesus.
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:So going back to Luke chapter 2.
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:So the angel says to the shepherds.
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:Today in a town of David, a
Savior has been born to you.
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:He is the Messiah.
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:He is the Lord.
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:You see, their joy had been
realized in this moment.
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:He says, God is saying to them, My gift to
the world, yes is my Son, but it is joy.
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:This year I've been studying out joy.
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:Thank you.
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:And I've read lots of books and
just been really, it's been really
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:inspired by how central joy is to
the Bible and to God's message.
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:I'm a big fan of Dallas Willett.
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:I love reading his material
and listening to his teachings.
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:And he says that, in his book
Divine Conspiracy, he says
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:that God is a joyous God.
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:Do we think of God in that way?
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:It seems hard, doesn't it, to
connect with Him on that level.
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:Because He's omnipotent, He's
all knowing, He sees everything.
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:We can easily see Him as like a little,
a big grumpy dad in the sky that we
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:have to keep on the right side of us.
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:Or any other variations of our,
perhaps sometimes skewed views of God.
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:But God is a joyous God.
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:Joy is essential And to
God's character as His love.
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:I absolutely believe that.
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:Think back to Genesis chapter
1 in the book and in creation.
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:When God created all of those different
things, what does it keep on saying as
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:He looked back and saw what He had made?
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:What did He say?
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:It is good.
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:When you look at that in the
Hebrew, it means that it was
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:good, but it also means pleasant.
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:Beneficial, beautiful, best, better,
bountiful, godly, bringing joy.
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:So God looked at all that he
had made and it brought him joy.
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:God is a joyous God.
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:Think about when we are out in nature.
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:Doesn't it bring us joy?
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:It does something to us
because we are made for joy.
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:Therefore, As God ushered in creation
with joy, He also announced the birth
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:of His Son with that same level of joy.
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:Because we are created for joy.
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:How is your life of joy?
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:In a lot of the reading that I've
done, it says that our level of
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:joy should be our homeostasis.
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:How That should be our natural state.
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:And if our joy is off, then we're off.
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:Isn't that interesting?
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:That should be our normal
existence, living a life of joy.
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:Our brains function well.
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:Our body does well.
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:Our immune system is boosted.
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:When we are joyful people, we
have no reason to not be the most
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:joyful people on the entire planet.
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:Because we're the recipients of that
great news, of that news of great joy.
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:Even babies in the first two years of
their lives, the number one thing apart
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:from food that they are seeking is
joyful interactions with their parents.
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:That's what they look for.
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:The studies on this is quite amazing.
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:This is a great book if you'd
like to read anything about it.
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:It's a little, small book, easy to read.
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:It's called the Joy Switch.
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:And what I love about it, it says,
it gives this definition of joy
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:with, in relationship, is that joy
is the glad to be togetherness.
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:Isn't that a nice quote?
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:A nice way to think about joy?
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:And this comes into our
relationship with God.
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:Glad to be togetherness.
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:God is always glad to be with you.
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:Glad to be togetherness in our
families, in our marriages, with
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:our children, with our friends.
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:That is the definition, I
think, that we can hold on to.
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:We can do something with that.
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:The problem is that we can sometimes think
that joy just happens by being in the
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:same room with each other or by sitting
next to each other or just by being with
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:God and checking a box for a quiet time.
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:The problem is, though, is that joy,
there's an intentionality behind joy.
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:We actually have to do certain things to
be able to work on that to make it happen.
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:So we have to learn to live in
the joy that God has given us.
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:There is unlearning to be done and
learning, new learning to acquire, so
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:that we can learn how to fully make
the most of and enjoy the most of
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:this great gift that God has given us.
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:In another book I've been reading called
Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You.
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:They talk about joy as well and it says
that joy is number one, it is relational.
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:Building joy means getting closer to God
and getting closer to grace filled people.
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:That is a really important statement.
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:Is it easy to feel joyful
around people who are angry?
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:I agree.
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:Is it easy to feel joyful around
people who are judgmental?
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:No.
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:You see, when we have relationships
that are grace filled, it opens
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:the door for vulnerability.
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:We're going to talk about
that in a little bit.
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:But I think this describes
the ministry of Jesus.
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:That he enjoyed his relationship
with God, his Father.
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:And he absolutely spread joy in his
relationships with other people.
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:Why is it that the prostitutes and
the sinners and the tax collectors
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:felt so comfortable being around him?
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:Because he was full of
grace and full of truth.
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:But he was full of grace,
spreading joy, that this was
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:the best place for them to be.
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:That's how we should be in our
relationships with one another.
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:That describes our
relationship with our Father.
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:It should infuse the very fabric
of all of our relationships.
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:I did a study on joy, as I said,
and I looked at all the references
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:of joy in the whole Bible.
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:And this is where we find them.
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:In the Old Testament, pretty much all of
the references to do with joy are to, are
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:connected to our relationship with God.
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:Pretty much all of them.
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:And it's about taking joy from being in
His presence, taking refuge in Him when
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:we're feeling down or discouraged, taking,
um, remembering God's goodness, being
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:mindful of how amazingly He loves us.
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:That should bring us joy.
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:Taking refuge in Him.
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:To having our strength in Him.
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:In the New Testament, again, the majority
of references to do with joy are also
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:connected to our relationship with God.
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:But also it's connected to God in
our, in, through the Holy Spirit that
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:we have in, at work in our lives.
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:He brings us joy.
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:Our righteousness and our
walk with God creates joy.
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:But what's interesting in the New
Testament is that we also see that
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:there is joy that comes from our
relationships with one another.
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:There's so many scriptures that talk
about bringing the gospel to others
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:bring us joy, having healthy spiritual
relationships bring us joy, having
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:true agape love, caring for one
another brings us joy, strengthening
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:and teaching one another brings joy.
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:I really believe that every church
of Christ, where we have people
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:striving to be disciples of Jesus,
should be the centers of joy.
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:That people should come in,
and I know people do, and
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:like, what is going on here?
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:Where's the Kool Aid?
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:That, what is it that's happening?
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:Because they should see a level of joy
that you cannot find anywhere else.
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:There is no reason why that
shouldn't be happening.
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:These should be the most joy
filled communities on the planet.
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:The problem is Satan knows that too.
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:So what does he try and do?
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:Take our joy.
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:And if he can do that, we can then
start getting critical with one another.
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:Judging one another, feeling distant from
God, simply because our joy has gone.
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:That's how powerful this is.
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:So, we're going to have a look.
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:How can we enjoy God's gift of
joy this Christmas and beyond?
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:So I have a couple of quick things
to be able to help us with, okay?
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:So my wife and I, we're both
actually educators, we're teachers.
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:So, um, So I'm going to give you
a little bit of homework to do.
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:Okay.
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:So you might want to take some
notes because I don't think any
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:of us have a photographic memory.
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:No, maybe if you don't, you've
not been blessed with that.
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:I'm encouraging you to take some notes.
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:Okay.
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:Right.
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:How do we make the most then this
holiday and moving, moving forward
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:in our relationship with one another.
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:So let me give you some things.
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:So how do we build joy?
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:Through healthy relationships.
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:Tell me what you see about this image.
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:What's the first thing that
stands out to you in this image?
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:Smiling.
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:Pablo, thank you.
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:Smiling.
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:Right?
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:We'll come to that.
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:Coffee.
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:We'll come to that.
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:But you see them smiling.
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:So, how we build joy filled
relationships with one another is
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:that when we see each other We smile.
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:You're giving a message to someone
that says, I'm glad to be with you.
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:Teenagers, when you come into
the house and your parents smile,
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:guess what you could do back?
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:You can do it.
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:It might break your face a little bit,
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:but smile and let them know that you
are glad to be with them as well.
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:It is, it's radical, it's true.
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:It is so powerful.
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:It is so powerful.
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:So, we're going to talk through, from this
picture, how we build different things
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:to help, to build healthy relationships.
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:The reason why this is important,
let me go back for a second.
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:The reason why this is so important
is because I think sometimes our
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:relationships can be fear based.
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:Yeah.
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:They can be judgment based.
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:God never wants that to be the case.
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:So we have to undo and unlearn perhaps
some unhealthy practices that we can have.
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:So here are some other
things that we can do.
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:So in this book, Living from the
Heart Jesus Gave You, it gives
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:a great list of ways that we can
build joy in our relationships.
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:So one of the things it says is
that we can ask questions of one
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:another that bring out vulnerability.
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:So we can say, Hey, tell me about this,
or how are you feeling about this?
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:Sometimes though, we can be triggered
and think, why are they asking?
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:And then our defenses go up and then the
joy is just gone, it's just disappeared.
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:But if we can allow ourselves to
ask a question with grace, we can
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:hear a response with compassion,
and That very intimate conversation
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:has the potential to build joy.
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:It's powerful when we do that.
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:I sat with one of my sons the other
day and I showed him this quote from
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:the book and I said, listen, I'm
going to ask you some questions just
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:about how you're doing spiritually and
it's not because I want to judge you.
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:It's simply because I want to connect with
you and genuinely just see how you are.
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:And he's, you know, I can
see his shoulders relaxing.
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:It's amazing.
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:And then the rest of the day, my wife
said, Have you noticed how joyful he is?
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:I was like, I know, it works!
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:So, God wants to bless us with
these powerfully deep relationships.
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:But we have to unlearn,
perhaps, some unhealthy things.
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:We have to learn to treat one another
with real dignity and respect.
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:Not with an agenda.
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:But just simply because they are
my brother or sister in Christ.
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:One of the things I love, now, this
sister here said she noticed coffee.
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:Another thing that we can do in
building healthy relationships is
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:finding each other's joy language.
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:So, my wife's joy language
would be this exact situation.
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:Sitting down with a healthy snack,
some home roasted coffee, and just
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:talking, getting deep, piercing
into my soul, trying to find out
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:how I'm doing and what's going on.
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:That's her joy language.
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:How am I really doing?
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:What's going on?
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:It's good for me, because
I would rather not share.
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:So it's good for me.
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:But what are your joy languages?
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:Perhaps it's going for a walk,
playing games with one another.
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:Watching TV is fun, but if the thing
you're not watching is not producing
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:joy, is it really building joy in
your relationship all the time?
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:We have to have conversations.
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:What brings us joy?
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:The other day, my wife and I, we had
a midweek, and one of the questions
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:that came up was, what actually brings
you joy, and creates joy in your life?
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:We both said, music.
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:The next day, we went out to this cafe,
where they had live music, And we were
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:able to experience that joy together.
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:But how will you know what
brings you joy if you don't even
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:communicate it or talk about it?
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:Okay?
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:So, here are some things.
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:You could try some of
this over the holidays.
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:Have deep, vulnerable conversations
that are filled with grace,
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:that are full of compassion.
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:Amen?
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:Do some things that create joy.
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:Go on some walks with one another.
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:Play some games with each other.
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:Okay, finally.
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:What's amazing is that all of the things
that you saw on the last slide about
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:building joy relationally, we also
can do the very same things with God.
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:And these spiritual disciplines
that many of us do on a daily
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:basis, they are opportunities
for connections of joy with God.
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:Sometimes, though, we can
see the spiritual disciplines
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:as just checkbox exercises.
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:I'm a disciple, therefore I should pray.
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:I should read my Bible.
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:That's pretty much it.
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:There is so much more to our
relationship with God that He
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:wants us to enjoy with Him.
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:I don't have the time to go through all
of these references, but I would like
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:to encourage you for your homework.
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:Write down the scripture
references, because every one of
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:these disciplines connects you
to joy in God in some capacity.
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:The first one is prayer.
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:Read about that.
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:John 16, 24.
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:Second one, the study of God's Word.
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:Psalm 19, 8.
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:Please read that.
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:The one at the bottom is gratitude.
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:Taking time just to think how blessed we
are to have a relationship with God and
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:all the things that He does in our lives.
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:Study that out.
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:The middle one is
fellowship with one another.
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:That God designed it in such a
way that we have those healthy
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:relationships bring us joy.
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:It brings us closer to one another
and then closer to God as a result.
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:Last one, just simply
being out in God's nature.
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:That's his joy language.
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:Psalm 65, eight.
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:So let me encourage you study
these things out over Christmas.
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:Do some activities with God so that
you can just simply say, God, I'm glad
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:to be with you because he's definitely
glad to be with us as we bring it into
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:to, to, to close and to take communion.
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:As Jesus was beginning to prepare
himself for going to the cross, this
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:is what he says to his disciples.
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:He says to them, listen, I'm going
soon and you're going to be left.
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:I won't be around.
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:So he promises them and he encourages
them and he builds their faith.
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:He comforts them and reminds
them of it's going to be okay.
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:I'm going to give you the Holy Spirit.
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:You've got one another.
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:I will never be far from you.
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:I'm always going to be with you.
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:And this is what he says to them.
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:I am coming to you now.
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:He's praying for them.
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:He says, I'm coming to you now, Father.
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:But I say these things while I am still
in the world, so that they may have
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:the full measure of my joy within them.
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:Amen.
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:Jesus.
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:was full of joy.
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:And he says to them, listen, as hard
as this is going to get, I want you to
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:have the full measure of my joy in you.
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:What an incredible promise.
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:He doesn't want us just to have a
little sprinkling of joy here and
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:there, but to have the full measure,
the great measure of his joy.
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:We can do that.
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:Yeah.
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:Through our times with Him.
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:Through our opportunities of
building joy with one another.
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:That's His promise to us.
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:And even as Jesus went to the cross,
this is, this always blows my mind.
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:Hebrews 12.
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:Jesus, who for the joy set
before Him, endured the cross.
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:Even facing the cross.
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:He was able to do it with joy.
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:So He left the world with the joy,
the same joy in which He entered.
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:But this time, we were His source of joy.
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:You were His source of
joy, even at the cross.
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:Let Him be our source of joy.
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:Every single day.
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:There is no reason we have, doesn't
matter what circumstances come our way,
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:none of them are worse than the cross.
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:And Jesus found joy even in that
darkest moment because he was able to
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:look at us and see the relationship
with God that his suffering was
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:going to bring and provide for us.
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:I hope I've been able to encourage
you today with the great gift of joy.
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:Please enjoy it this Christmas
It's great to be with you.
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:Please come up and say hi afterwards.
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:I'm very encouraged to share
God's Word with you today.
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:Amen